How to Forgive, When Every Part of You Says, “No Way”

6/2/25 9:37 PM
LynL
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06/01/25

Forgive and then forget the pain that has been inflicted upon you.  Every child of mine has made mistakes, have done wrong in their lifetime.  No one is perfect, so how can you expect those who have inflicted pain and hurt upon you, to be perfect?

The sins of the father are perpetuated down unto the family tree.  What they have learned by their father or mother gets learned by the next generation.  There is a pattern that emerges when following generational curses.  We are creatures of learning in what we see and hear and experience.  Many do not understand that these patterns repeat until consciously broken.  The first step to breaking these debilitating patterns is to forgive those who have done you wrong, whether it be family, friend or foe.  Each person has their own history of why they act as they do.  Whether it be due to generational curses or sins that are picked up during your life, bad patterns and behavior are the result.

Pride is a factor that always creeps into the mix.  Pride causes one to not accept others mistakes and wrong doings.  Pride elevates one to believe, that the sins of others always surpass our sins and give them a right to not forgive.

But let’s go a step further into a child being violated and growing up in fear of many things due to this terrible occurrence.  Many barriers are implemented– fear, hate, revenge, disgust.  These become the catalyst that enables demons to start entering one’s body.  One now starts housing entities that were not present previously.  More and more pile on to the soul, until there is an effort to get rid of these entities.  Forgiveness is the only true remedy that can be implemented to evict the demons that have been well rooted for years.  It seems counterproductive to give those that have harmed you a free pass, but what is never looked at, is the toll it has put on your life.  Hate is an emotion that takes effort and time that actually sucks the life out of you.  It permeates your being while also damaging relations with others.  Forgiveness is a reset of the soul.   It gives you the ability to more forward and not get stuck in the past.  Some might say, “How can I forgive the person who killed my brother (mother, father, sister, friend)?  Forgiveness is an act of giving.  You give away the hate and grief that has festered in your soul.  Forgiveness does not mean you need to go out to lunch with that person but means you can go forward in life without blame and heaviness upon your heart.  The one who can forgive lightens their load and can move forward without encumbrances.  Many say they can’t forgive.  Start with getting on your knees and repenting of all your sins (past and present, including if you have not forgiven yourself), mistakes, faux pas and uncaring things you have done in the past.  Ask God for forgiveness.  Tell God you want to forgive the people who have done you wrong and ask him to take away the hurt, the pain, the reoccurring thoughts and wash you clean of all things that have prevented you from moving forward.  Do this daily until you see a change of heart.  Just remember that you are the one that benefits from this.   Your soul will be lighter, have more joy and no longer will be perpetuating wrongs from the past (reliving them over and over again).  For every time you relive the past you reopen the wound.  The wound must be cleaned out and washed in forgiveness to start afresh.  God heals all wounds, if you ask.  Forgiveness releases you from that prison you have been in.  Forgiveness gives you the ability to move forward.  Stop the pain to start your life.

A simple prayer that can be said to help might be done in this manner:

Dear God,

In Jesus’  name I pray.  Please wash me clean, make me white, without spot or wrinkle.  Forgive me of my trespasses as I forgive those who trespass against me.  Lead me not into temptation and deliver me from all evil.

Help me forgive those in my life that have impacted me negatively.  Help me to forgive them fully and completely, not giving room for negative thoughts.  Keep me away from replaying past events, over and over.  Help me bury them with love and prayers for that person.  Help me understand that may of my actions have needed forgiveness.  Heal my heart, min, soul and body to make me an obedient child of yours.  Thank you for the help you are providing God, in Jesus’ name I pray.

Other words given to me by the Holy Spirit in the past about forgiveness:

Forgiveness-Unforgiveness, It’s the Same and It is Unacceptable – LynL

07/16/23

My word says, “Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us”.  This does not mean you can pick and choose which trespasses are ok to keep active and alive.  All trespasses done to or against you must be forgiven.  Unforgiveness is like a corrosive that eats away at your soul.  Day in, day out, it is a poison that permeates your being.  The sore you have not dealt with, becomes larger, opens up and starts to emanate puss, while it is left unattended.  Many of these open sores are reopened daily and revisited.  Each of my children can choose to put these open wounds in the past or keep them alive.

My Kingdom will not allow for unforgiveness.  Forgiveness is mandatory to get into Heaven.

No matter what a person has done to you (or others) or how it affected your life, you must deal with this pain.

I Am can help thru your prayer and asking for me to help to heal your wounds and give you the ability to forgive those who did this wrong.

I said, “I would forgive you of your trespasses, if you would forgive others”.

(Mathew 6:14-15 For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.)

Many of my children who have followed all my rules, except for this one, will find themselves on Earth for the Tribulation.  Deal with this forgiveness issue now, so I can forgive you!

God Will Forgive You, Right After You Forgive Others- LynL

04/14/24

One of the most important declarations made in the bible is to forgive all those who have hurt you in anyway.  This is an area that seems to be glossed over by MANY Christians.  They believe that the wrong that was perpetrated, is so paramount, that forgiveness is not warranted.  This is not what my Word says.

We all make mistakes while upon the Earth.  We (all children) are guilty of indiscretions both big and small.  I gave you my Word to follow and execute while in your body.  There are no exceptions to this rule.  It is important to forgive even those who ruined your life by raping you, killing a loved one, cheating you out of your life savings.  The crime is judged by me, not you.  Wash yourself clean of this sin of unforgiveness before you are trapped in its clutches.  Unforgiveness is a sin and must be addressed before entering heaven.

Many say they can never forgive, but I say, “I will help.  Get on your knees, ask for me to assist you to forgive, and I will help you for forget that pain that wishes to stay.  Do this daily until the pain and hurt is gone”.

I love all my children.  I wish none to perish.  Let go of that anchor that pulls you down daily.  Let it go, so you can rise above all hate and unforgiveness to become free of all encumbrances.  This may be one of the most difficult things you have ever done, but you will be free, truly free when you forgive others.

Matthew 6:14-15 KJV

14 For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: 15 But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses

Luke 6:37 KJV

37 Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven

Luke 6:27 KJV

27 But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you

Matthew 7:1-5

2 For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. 3 And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother’s eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye? 4 Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and behold, a beam is in thine own eye? 5 Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother’s eye.

LynL Commentary: When I ask Christians if they have forgiven others, at least 25% of them are guilty of harboring resentment, hate, unforgiveness for people that they perceive have done them wrong.  This I believe, will keep many from Heaven until they correct it.  Nothing is too hard if you ask Jesus to help you with this problem.  If you don’t try, you will find yourself in the wrong location upon your death.  You will have eternity to hold your grudge against whomever you have been focusing your distain on.  Can you imagine spending eternity with that person, you have tried your best, to forget all these years?

Forgiveness is Tied to Love – LynL

12/31/24

Forgiveness of others is paramount, if to enter into my Kingdom.  I ask you, “Have you ever made a mistake that was unforgivable”?  What if I Am had not forgiven you of your trespasses?  What if I had tossed you out of my Kingdom due to the huge mistake YOU made?  By the same principle you are to forgive others.  No one is perfect, no one is without fault.  Your transgressions can be compared to those who have done you wrong.

We all make mistakes whether big, medium, or small.  My Kingdom is built on ALL sins being forgiven through repentance.  Whether someone has been killed, ruined another person’s life, or just stole from them, forgiveness becomes the foundation of my Kingdom, for it represents LOVE.

My Kingdom will not accept hate, unforgiveness, scorn because everything is tied to love, and without love we have nothing.

A repentive heart is one that will be healed.  Ask for my forgiveness for the venom you have spewed out (to others) in the past.  I will forgive YOU of all YOUR trespasses as you forgive others.

You say this is impossible, but I say it is not.  Through repenting ask for my help in forgiving others.  Ask me to replace the hate with love and understanding.  Ask me to change your mindset and open your heart to loving your neighbor as yourself.  Remember that YOU and YOUR transgressions are someone else’s forgiveness issue.  With love all can change.

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